Could “Sadness” give you what you want?
One of the paragraphs of my “The Dual Facet of Abbott Baxx” states:
“Most people don’t know that they have a bug inside their heads that continuously repeats: “Sadness gives you what you want… so, keep showing your victim face…”
Probably because when we were kids, we used to obtain things by showing sadness to our parents and other people. We were successful most of the time and so, that’s how we learned it.”
Most of us used to obtain things from our parents or other loved ones by changing our expression to a pity face when we asked for something.
We still do.
Now, as grown-ups, we need to make some changes inside and modify some “programs.”
That “automation” doesn’t give us the results we want, even though it might work here and there. The result, if it works, is not lasting or sanctifying.
There’s a better way for us to obtain things that give us real benefit. The new way is to create joy inside, by just the idea of having or being it.
Just imagine how amazing the feeling of a new desire is! All crashes when, after the desire, a feeling like: “but I don’t have it!” comes and we focus just on that feeling.
Let’s focus on the desire, and the object of our desire as a goal.
We used to focus on the fact that we’re always missing something. Now we want to focus on our goals, which already contain the object of our desire.
Living in that goal, living inside our dream, we start feeling the joy as if that was already our reality.
Someone once said something that sounds like: Happiness doesn’t follow things, instead, things follow happiness.
In other words, stop expecting to receive or achieve something in order to be happy. Create happiness inside yourself and then you’ll see the fruits.
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